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The Trouble with Men: Reflections on Sex, Love, Marriage, Porn, and PowerDavid Shields's The Trouble with Men: Reflections on Sex, Love, Marriage, Porn, and Power is an immersion into the perils, limits, and possibilities of human intimacy. All at once a love letter to his wife, a nervy reckoning with his own fallibility, a meditation on the impact of porn on American culture, and an attempt to understand marriage (one marriage, the idea of marriage, all marriages), The Trouble with Men is exquisitely balanced between the
David Shields's The Trouble with Men: Reflections on Sex, Love, Marriage, Porn, and Power is an immersion into the perils, limits, and possibilities of human intimacy. All at once a love letter to his wife, a nervy reckoning with his own fallibility, a meditation on the impact of porn on American culture, and an attempt to understand marriage (one marriage, the idea of marriage, all marriages), The Trouble with Men is exquisitely balanced between the personal and the anthropological, nakedness and restraint. While unashamedly intellectual, it's also irresistibly readable and extremely moving. Over five increasingly intimate chapters, Shields probes the contours of his own psyche and marriage, marshalling a chorus of other voices that leaven, deepen, and universalize his experience; his goal is nothing less than a deconstruction of eros and conventional masculinity. Masterfully woven throughout is an unmistakable and surprisingly tender cri de coeur to his wife. The risk and vulnerability on display are in the service of radical candor, acerbic wit, real emotion, and profound insight-exactly what we've come to expect from Shields, who, in an open invitation to the reader, leaves everything on the page.Binding Type: Paperback
Publisher: Ohio State University Press
Published: 02/25/2019
ISBN: 9780814255193
Pages: 160
Weight: 0.45lbs
Size: 8.50h x 5.50w x 0.50d
Review Citations: Kirkus Reviews 01/01/2019
Shelf Awareness 03/01/2019
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★★★★★ 5
Wise Advice for the College-Bound Student
Format: Kindle
I read this book after reading Newport's other study guide How to Become a Straight A Student and was looking forward to more of his easy to understand, quickly read nuggets of wisdom. Although I found the advice in his previous book to be more helpful, I did fine some words of advice that I will surely put to use in my upcoming semester.
Among the gems I found, Newport reminds students to "Study in Fifty-Minute Chunks" and "Learn to Listen." In these short chapters there are ideas to help the student better utilize their time by minimizing distractions and knowing exactly what to listen for in a lecture. By far my favorite and most memorable line from this book is "A good analogy is that writing is to a college student what shooting hoops is to a basketball player." Wise advice indeed. I would recommend this book to high school an college students alike. The chapters are short and jam packed with good advice.
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Reviewed in the United States on June 25, 2012
★★★★★ 3
Good for some
Format: Paperback
Good advice but it's written for college students that don't work. Not for someone who goes to night school like I do.
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Reviewed in the United States on February 24, 2019
★★★★★ 5
An excellent story well worth a read
Format: Kindle
This was so well written, I loved every second of it. It was a lovely take on vampires and what they are or can be.
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This wasn’t an easy read for me. How Miyako’s parents acted… that was my parents only worse in a lot of ways and only better in that they never hit me as an adolescent. So reading this brought up memories of the abuse I suffered. Even so, it is a really good story and I highly recommend. I hope to read more of her stories soon and follow Miyako and see how she and her family grow as characters.
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Reviewed in the United States on December 10, 2025
★★★★★ 5
I really loved this book and the characters!
Format: Kindle
I enjoyed this way more than I expected!
I cared for the characters and there was so much to this -vampires, witches, trans, lesbians.....
The story was really well done and I will read more by the author.
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Reviewed in the United States on January 24, 2025
★★★★★ 5
Yes, more please!
Format: Kindle
Love comes in many flavors, and I think most of them are here. I can not wait for the next book in the series. Thank you for an awesome read!
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Reviewed in the United States on April 23, 2024
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